Girls are a little crazy. Now before you get offended, remember two things. 1) I am a girl. 2) At some point in time, you as a female have had irrational, unreasonable thoughts and expectations of the opposite sex, myself included. Lately, I’ve been taking time to reflect, and I’ve come up with a few gems.
Stop trying to claim something that never belonged to you in the first place. You are hurting yourself, you are better than that. What do I mean by that? Let’s think. Once a girl decides she actually likes a boy, in some small, tiny irrational part of you that has laid claim over them. The more time you spend with him, the bigger that piece grows. It doesn’t matter that he isn’t actually yours. You have dedicated countless hours of consistent texting. You have already planned future dates with your boo, imagined spending the next few holidays together. You have invested months of months of ‘talking’ so he now belongs to you. In your mind….because that makes sense.
Stop it crazy! Stop it right now.
I have to admit, now that I’m officially over my situationship, I feel pretty good. I’ve fallen back in love with being single and loving my social life. I think it’s the best place to be when you’re unattached. I think girls, especially during this time of year, focus so much on the fact that they are alone, and less on all of the great things about being unattached. It’s fun to stay out late, and not have to answer to anybody. It’s great to not feel crazy/out of control because so and so didn’t return your text. It’s fucking fantastic, to not be crying or sad over someone. Not to mention that the holidays are coming up, and niggas is broke, forreal! No gifts to buy! Cheers to that guys!
Embrace where you’re at, eat a spoonful of enthusiasm, and add a sprinkle of faith. Stop being such sourpusses when it comes to love. Roll with it, and you’ll definitely go far.
Be Well.
